someday

for sure, once in our lives, we have this pick-up-the-pieces stage and we need to hold on to our hope that someday - the soonest possible time - all the pains be over.. and that someday - we'll find the love that's meant for us and will likely stay for eternity..

learn to love your self first before trying to love others

relationships are not always perfect, most of the time, we must hold on and try to make it work but we musn't be blind to know when to give up - and be firm enough to do it. otherwise, you're just giving the other person an impression that you can't afford to lose him/her.

i'm not an authority to talk about relationships, i myself had (still have) ups & downs but i know myself, kaya ko ang every fall, pinatatag na ng panahon (really huh?!). i just feel bad when my friends confide their broken relationships. normal people who cant have a normal relationship they deserve. some friends who are blinded by the lies of their respective partners and some who are blinded their feelings. blind ba talaga or they just refuse to see? it's ironic, kasi i am an advocate of takings risks and yet i'm advising them to give up. ang sakin lang naman, try to give up for the other person to realize your worth. it's not enough that you just tell them that something is not ok with you & yet you're not doing any action about it.

don't get me wrong, i'm not making senti here. my relationship is ok. i just want my friends to reflect on nina's song para naman di sila nasasaktan ng mga taong walang karapatang manakit ng feelings nila. sabi nga ng friends ko, grabe daw akong magmahal. yeah it's true but i was never faithful. i'm in a relationship with someone who might stay longer than others while enjoying borrowed moments with someone i love most - but most of the time, love is not enough. mas susugal ako sa isang bagay na siguradong panalo kesa sa gusto ko.

you don't love your self if you're letting other people hurt you

Someday by Nina

Someday you're gonna realize
One day you’ll see this through my eyes
By then I won’t even be there
I’ll be happy somewhere
Even if I can’t
I know you don’t really see my worth
You think you're the last guy on earth
Well I’ve got news for you
I know I’m not that strong
But it wont take long
Wont take long

(Coz)Someday someones gonna love me
The way I wanted you to need me
Someday someones gonna take your place
One day I’ll forget about you
You'll see I won’t even miss you
Someday someday

(I know someone's
gonna be there)

Right now I know you can tell
I’m down and I’m not doing well
But one day these tears they will all run dry
I wont have to cry,
sweet goodbye